In this age of people you see them throwing out they love eachother because they once shared a cookie with them or that they just had a spark. Love is something delicate and it takes time to actually know for sure that the feeling they have is real. But how do you know for sure? Well it's simple you’re not going to want anyone else and you would do anything for the one you love and would sacrifice your happiness for theirs. You will do anything and everything for them. It’s not just in relationships that you see this word being thrown around; even in family members you see this happening. Such as you have a mother or father that left when you were young and they never managed to get to see you every other weekend or that they didn’t ever have the decency to call you on the phone and say happy birthday. They then call you after a certain period of time and at the end of every two minute call they would say ‘I love you’ and of course you will say it back. This can take you by surprise but that love is something you really bad want to be there so you push so hard to get it. But, at the end of the day you will realize that you don’t truly love then you just love the person they were for those two minutes every week.
Taking time to find out if your love is real will save you many days of a broken heart.
I really appreciated your post! I don't think everyone understands this difference! Your word choice was very intentional! I think that is why your work always flows so well. Everything you say has a purpose! Way to go girl! I love reading your blogs!
ReplyDeleteThis was really good! You explained your emotions and thoughts really well. You said the truth and exactly how you feel about this subject. I can tell it's personal for you because of the last paragraph. It was really good! Watch out for your use of "you" and "your!"
ReplyDeleteBrandee, you are so honest in your writing. You bring up crucial ideas when defining love, such as sacrifice, choice, want, other. Your last paragraph could definitely be developed more. I feel like you are just giving us a small glimpse of a much bigger story. Maybe you will write that out some day. Do proofread.
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